Saturday, August 23, 2008
One fwded msg worth reading..
zindagi hai chhoti, har pal mein khush raho... Office me khush raho, ghar mein khush raho... Aaj paneer nahi hai, dal mein hi khush raho... Aaj gym jane ka samay nahi, do kadam chal ke hi khush raho... Aaj Dosto ka sath nahi, TV dekh ke hi khush raho... Ghar ja nahi sakte to phone kar ke hi khush raho... Aaj koi naraaz hai, uske iss andaz mein bhi khush raho... Jise dekh nahi sakte uski awaz mein hi khush raho... Jise paa nahi sakte uski yaad mein hi khush raho Laptop na mila to kya, Desktop mein hi khush raho... Bita hua kal ja chuka hai, usse meethi yaadein hai, unme hi khush raho.. aane wale pal ka pata nahi... sapno mein hi khush raho.. Haste haste ye pal bitaenge, aaj mein hi khush raho Zindagi hai choti, har pal mein khush raho ..............
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Why do we make mistakes….??
I sometimes ask question to myself, why I made so many mistakes which I knew can be avoided.
Is it because I was inexperienced, is it because of carelessness?
Since years, I grew up with these uncertain changes in life, infact everybody faces this, so I can’t say this is the reason why I did. And yes the outcome of your mistakes doesn’t always bad; sometimes you may end up with nice things. But then this is again linked with the destiny which I don’t want to discuss about here.
Sometimes I know that this is wrong, this is going to end me with lots of trouble, still I do that infact sometimes I loved to do that, sometimes I become impatient to do the same. Yes when I am lazy doing the other part, I do the things which I know are easy but wrong. Sometimes I feel by myself that what am I doing is right then I do. The later part of doing mistake is knowingly you are doing things, which you are aware of and you have taken decisions after analyzing the whole thing carefully. That point of time you feel this is the cent percent correct thing according to you and you are going to do it by whatever cost. After a period of time, you think about it and realize that this couldn’t have been done by you. But again you don’t have any other options in your life at any point of time. You just have to take decision and do it and move on. Every single point of time in your life is unique. It’s the way in which you are living. It’s unique of each individual, how they react or how they respond to the situation at that time. Some people don’t have time rather some don’t want to analyze what they have done, whether right or wrong. When we do that, we come to know things which we did could have been done in a better way without making that situation that worst which we did.
These kinds of introspections are required for each individual to grow in themselves. Am I doing better than the last time, am I reacting him/her/situation in a better way. These are the things which we can check by ourselves and yes sometimes your friends/family/colleagues remind you that you are repeating the same mistake you did last time or you have learned and modified yourself for a better person.
What I realized is that you are the best judge of yourself; you are the only finest critic of your deeds. So be yourself and be a friend of yourself. And periodically introspect yourself, that makes you aware of how and where your life is leading to. We all know that we are not going to live forever here, and we also know that we are prone to mistakes. These two things are complementary. And yes sometimes there won’t be repetitive situation in your life. So learn from your mistakes. It will be sole your decision how your life graph is moving. It’s only you who knows best how you are evolving as a person.
After thinking so much, I couldn’t find any logical reason why we make mistakes but yes I can say that….Make mistakes, learn and enrich yourself J that’s what I feel our purpose of life is..
And yes..I want to know how others feel about mistakes…
Is it because I was inexperienced, is it because of carelessness?
Since years, I grew up with these uncertain changes in life, infact everybody faces this, so I can’t say this is the reason why I did. And yes the outcome of your mistakes doesn’t always bad; sometimes you may end up with nice things. But then this is again linked with the destiny which I don’t want to discuss about here.
Sometimes I know that this is wrong, this is going to end me with lots of trouble, still I do that infact sometimes I loved to do that, sometimes I become impatient to do the same. Yes when I am lazy doing the other part, I do the things which I know are easy but wrong. Sometimes I feel by myself that what am I doing is right then I do. The later part of doing mistake is knowingly you are doing things, which you are aware of and you have taken decisions after analyzing the whole thing carefully. That point of time you feel this is the cent percent correct thing according to you and you are going to do it by whatever cost. After a period of time, you think about it and realize that this couldn’t have been done by you. But again you don’t have any other options in your life at any point of time. You just have to take decision and do it and move on. Every single point of time in your life is unique. It’s the way in which you are living. It’s unique of each individual, how they react or how they respond to the situation at that time. Some people don’t have time rather some don’t want to analyze what they have done, whether right or wrong. When we do that, we come to know things which we did could have been done in a better way without making that situation that worst which we did.
These kinds of introspections are required for each individual to grow in themselves. Am I doing better than the last time, am I reacting him/her/situation in a better way. These are the things which we can check by ourselves and yes sometimes your friends/family/colleagues remind you that you are repeating the same mistake you did last time or you have learned and modified yourself for a better person.
What I realized is that you are the best judge of yourself; you are the only finest critic of your deeds. So be yourself and be a friend of yourself. And periodically introspect yourself, that makes you aware of how and where your life is leading to. We all know that we are not going to live forever here, and we also know that we are prone to mistakes. These two things are complementary. And yes sometimes there won’t be repetitive situation in your life. So learn from your mistakes. It will be sole your decision how your life graph is moving. It’s only you who knows best how you are evolving as a person.
After thinking so much, I couldn’t find any logical reason why we make mistakes but yes I can say that….Make mistakes, learn and enrich yourself J that’s what I feel our purpose of life is..
And yes..I want to know how others feel about mistakes…
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