Fairness..

Who says life is fair? Life is always unfair. If you want, you can make it fair.

....anonymous

Just finished reading 'wise and otherwise' by Sudha Murty...I don't want to praise it or advertise for the same to read, so please don’t mistaken by this post. This book contains small sections describing the number of nice experiences which she had. The whole book I read in two days, stories were so touchy that I couldn't move my eyes from it...some stories left my eyes full of tears. There were many stories where I could relate to myself. Those were about common human beings with uncommon ideas and learning from them.
There was a story about her friend who was not satisfied and finds negativity in every single thing. I could relate the same with one of my friend who says the similar way, as she mentioned about her friend. Apart from her, everyone else is happy and enjoying life, she is the one who is facing challenges and going thru all difficulties. If rest of the world (including me!) achieves anything, that is because of our good luck. I was good at studies all the time, and if my score is higher, it was my luck ...ok...and if she scores lower than me, that is her bad luck. As far as I know her, she was never ever studied hard, hence the marks were. Even today, I have seen her copying many things, be it clothes, be it thoughts including lifestyle. In job, if something happens, that also she relates to my luck and how lucky I am, some kind of criticism comes along with whatever I do. She always has some complains about the work all the time, it’s not about one day or one person, it’s about the entire mass except her. She speaks lies to me too...I get shock many times, the way she speaks, I know it correctly every single time, but I never say it at her face, it’s the friendship between us which binds us together apart from all these. So I prefer to keep myself away from her for some time.
Many of us blame our luck when we are sad, but we find our own way to come out of it, we don't blame others for it, at least I don't do it. We all know how much we do to survive in workplace, in society. Those were all our personal matters, and we know how to handle it, if not we seek for someone's help. We will never find a solution by complaining about others, by telling others are not working or doing anything but they are happy and earning more...that sometimes includes me according to my friend. It could be jealousy or some other reasons people behave in this way...no idea. But people like this do exist and they bug your head at times, when they are close to you.
If anyone of this kind reading this, please don't blame others for your incompetence. It’s not only you who faces challenges in life, everyone in this earth has to face challenges according to their capabilities, and no one is ended up with a great problem which he/she can't solve. If you think that your problem is bigger, then proud of yourself that you have higher capability than others, and be humble what you have.

Great Thoughts....a must read!

We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves.If what we are now has been the result of our own past actions, it certainly follows that whatever we wish to be in future can be produced by our present actions;so we have to know how to act.
-Swami Vivekananda

Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It's not a day when you lounge around doing nothing; it's when you've had everything to do, and you've done it.
-Margaret Thatcher

Apply yourself. Get all the education you can, but then, by God, do something. Don't just stand there, make it happen.
-Lee Lacocca

Do it !

Whenever you want to do something good, do it immediately. Don’t wait for something better to happen, don’t make it conditional …be it anything; just believe in doing it asap. If you shift your action to sometime later, then your destiny will shift the same to faraway from your reach. Next time when you try to do the same, constraints will be so much that you will have to discard the idea of doing the same.

From my experience I am telling this to you, I have done many things as soon as it comes to my mind, and I feel good after doing the same, a sense of satisfaction comes. Same way I have postponed many things to future or added some beneficial constraints to the same, later when I try doing the same, then I realize ,I have already forgone that opportunity . Things become so difficult later(After all dynamic earth! things move so fast) you can never even imagine doing the same.

So don’t think so much, just do it…!

gr8..

This is what i learnt from my sketch tutorial, want to share with you:

"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great."
-- Mark Twain

Roses @ourhome

Only in men's imagination, does every truth find an effective and undeniable existence. Imagination, not invention, is the supreme master of art as of life.

-Joseph Conrad

Special you..

It’s been a year since we are together, yes one year of our togetherness has many incidents, which we remember and laugh about. It’s a year with lots of memories to treasure, lots of things unfolded, lots of things we shared. Many more wishes made, many plans made, so on and so forth.
It looks like a day before we married, looks like just now I got your first phone call…I got the first bunch of roses from you… down the memory many more things with you… for which I love to live them again and again.
Apart from many good things…. we did practical of Einstein’s theory of relativity:-)
It plays important role when we both are apart.

I am happy about everything we have and everything we don’t. Happy for everything I got with you as package;-)
I want to live my life forever with you…not because I have no other ways;-)
I want to talk a lot when u want to sleep…not b’coz no one there with me that time;-)
I want to take away all your bheja fry things from your mind by literally frying them;-)
I want to share my untrue unimaginable ideas and thoughts with you and to make you listen even if you don’t want.
I want you to talk to me a lot…. and I will listen though I feel bore ;-)
I know I bug you a lot in many different ways…for which you always patiently handle me (handle with care types;-))…
[Aap log bhi sochte honge kitna aankh marti he;-)]

I love my life because you are with me now. Not that I hated it before, just that I want to live it to the fullest and for 100 years more.

Sometimes I feel I am the luckiest and happiest in this world when I am with you:-) May this feeling remains with me forever! Amen

Waiting...

Nothing I have to do …I can’t walk properly, I can’t jump even I am happy…I can’t help my partner doing many things…what had happened to me, am I became lazy… No :( I had an accident which while going office, its not that I never had any. But this is the most serious one I ever had, serious to me; not meant to be taken so serious by you all;-)
I had a ligament tear near my ankle joint, am ok…but for which doctor has put one plaster, which I didn’t like. It has to be kept for 3weeks.Never had this kind of experience before. I didn’t take leave as I have an option of working from home, which I am doing. I have only two places in my entire home, I sit on my bed and sit on sofa that’s it, my whole day is getting over by only two sittings: D Feeling bore sometimes, didn’t go out since last week not even till our gate. I am just waiting to get this week over, then I can probably go to doctor and open this plaster, then I think I will be one of the happiest people of the coming week:)
Now I am feeling how important my leg is! You need a hassle free life ?Love your legs and take good care ;-)